7 th\u00f3i quen th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn d\u1ea7y c\u1ed9p; m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00f3m t\u1eaft tr\u00ean trang web n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 khi ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1edf h\u1eefu th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5m; c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3\u00a0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 th\u1ef1c thi h\u01a1n c\u00f3 t\u1ea1i cu\u1ed1n T\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin – The speed of trust<\/strong>. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh mua t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2013, \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed1n 7 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t<\/strong>, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 t\u00f3m g\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n Cho t\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n nay, nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng n\u00ean m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. N\u1ed9i dung trong lo\u1ea1t entry n\u00e0y vi\u1ebft d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e9p ra n\u00ean n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n Ni\u1ec1m tin c\u00f3 c\u00f3 hai g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9, g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n tin ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em> v\u00e0 g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em> tin b\u1ea1n. M\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 “tin t\u01b0\u1edfng” c\u1ee7a hai g\u00f3c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ni\u1ec1m tin trong b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng sau:<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta h\u01a1n c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c \u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 v\u00ec ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta theo h\u01b0\u1edbng y\u00eau chi\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c theo h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u1edf l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u1edf l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c v\u00ec \u1edf m\u1ed7i l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u trong nh\u00f3m \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi th\u1eb1ng cha h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 nh\u1eefng ai m\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh, sinh vi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t lao \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n hay cao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh t\u00f4i? N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111ang trong m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m \u0111\u00f3?<\/p>\n Khi b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/strong> t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00e1ch quan \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ni\u1ec1m tin t\u1eeb c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i th\u00ec ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 xa so v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c; l\u00fac l\u00e0m s\u1ebd h\u1ee5t h\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n l\u1ea1i d\u1eabn t\u1edbi t\u1ef1 ti, \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau qu\u00e1 th\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0169ng th\u1ea5p.<\/p>\n N\u00f3i chung b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cao th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. L\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp t\u00e0nh, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfe l\u00ean, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh ni\u1ec1m tin m\u1edbi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n “c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe”. N\u00f3 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ni\u1ec1m tin l\u00e0 “m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfe” r\u1ed3i ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3; hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n Ni\u1ec1m tin s\u1ebd gia t\u0103ng khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp “th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i” v\u00e0 s\u1ebd s\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp “th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i”<\/p>\n X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ni\u1ec1m tin b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e1m \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn cho ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c th\u1ea5p th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n Ni\u1ec1m tin l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1ch quan A l\u00e0 B. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 A nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 B. B th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n A g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ti; B t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u00ean n\u00ean b\u1eb1ng A ho\u1eb7c v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/strong> \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n B t\u0103ng gi\u00fap k\u00e9o A l\u00ean nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. A kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u0103ng B<\/p>\n C\u00e2u “Anh \u00fd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin” bao h\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 anh \u00fd c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 “Trung th\u1ef1c, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn,..”<\/p>\n Ni\u1ec1m tin d\u1eabn d\u1eaft suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng anh A r\u1ea5t \u00edch k\u1ef7 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u01b0\u1edbng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o t\u00ecm ra b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi A; c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf A c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec b\u1ea1n “g\u00e1n” cho anh ta \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean anh ta th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. “ni\u1ec1m tin” n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi A, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn A th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi anh ta.<\/p>\n Ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n v\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ngu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang sai th\u1ebf n\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng ni\u1ec1m tin ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kia s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ecdi c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u1ee9ng minh trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ni\u1ec1m tin l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh bao g\u1ed3m con c\u00e1i, anh em, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng b\u00e0. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin kh\u00e1c nhau. Gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 5 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n V\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng anh \u00fd r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a anh ta. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng m\u1ed7i khi anh ta v\u1eafng nh\u00e0; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 anh ta \u0111i qua \u0111\u00eam b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn y\u00ean t\u00e2m. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng con b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc..<\/p>\n Ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00f4 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng. \u1ede v\u1ecb tr\u00ed l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng ta mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ni\u1ec1m tin trong b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung th\u1ee7y th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n, ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng c\u1eadu ta l\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb con \u0111\u1ec1u v\u1eady c\u1ea3. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 xem ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng; n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu ta t\u1eeb ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc khi b\u1ecb nh\u1eafc th\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc khi th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n khi ch\u1ec9 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o h\u00e0nh vi.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh; v\u00ed nh\u01b0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ni\u1ec1m tin trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch h\u01a1n. C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1ec1 mu\u1ed9n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i anh ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 do c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 anh ta lo b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 ngo\u00e0i kia. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u00f4ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u00fd \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng \u1edf hai n\u01a1i nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty\/tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc. \u1ede c\u00f4ng ty\/tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean, c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n Va ch\u1ea1m \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u; b\u1ea1n th\u00edch ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi ai th\u00ec ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n; h\u1ecdc l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 do b\u1ea1n. C\u00f2n \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec kh\u00e1c, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ra c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n Gi\u1edd h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ty n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ng\u1eadp tr\u00e0n ni\u1ec1m tin kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng ty, ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1edbi nhau v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i, \u00edt c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m va ch\u1ea1m. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t v\u1ecb k\u1ef7 v\u00ec v\u1eady \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a t\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p.<\/p>\n T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n khi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau t\u0103ng l\u00ean l\u00e0 do \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh. \u0110\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m tin ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cao c\u1ea3 chung thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c ni\u1ec1m tin t\u1ef1 n\u1ea3y n\u1edf.<\/p>\n M\u00ea t\u00edn v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\nH\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ni\u1ec1m tin<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/chienluocsong.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/he-thong-niem-tin-1024x478.jpg\")
<\/p>\n1. Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/div>\n2. Ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/chienluocsong.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/He-thong-niem-tin-cls-1024x379.jpg\")
<\/p>\n3. Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
\n